Love is Possible...If You Believe

As 2011 rapidly approaches, like most, I tend to think about what I'd like to Release, Re-dedicate myself to, and Ramp Up. Release is necessary. We hold onto thoughts, beliefs, and ways of being in the world that may have served us at one time but have ceased to do so. As children, we adopt coping strategies that, if resorted to as adults, only make matters worse. And yet, we continue to use--or they use us--these coping skills.

What might we achieve, have, experience if we were to, from time to time, release thoughts, beliefs, and ways of being that sabotage our life. Let's say, in the coming year, that you'd like to attract a loving, trusting man capable of committing to you. You've pined for such a relationship now for awhile. But, all you keep meeting are the "wrong" kinds of men. What's a gal to do?

Let's begin with two questions my friend Angel, who is a Life Coach, ask her clients:

1. What do you believe about yourself?

2. What do you believe about men?

If you're like so many single women I know, you don't have what you say you want in a companion because you make one or many of these mistakes:

1. You don't believe your dream man even exist
2. You don't believe you are worthy of what you say you want
3. You give yourself to men who aren't The One
4. You think "all the good ones are taken"
5. You think the ones left are dogs, liars, cheaters, players, losers,...you name it

Now, with beliefs like these what do you imagine you will attract/create? How about more of what you say you DON'T want.

We CAN dump outdated beliefs that undermine our ability to manifest our deepest heart's desires. Here's how. Use Denials to uproot sabotaging thoughts and beliefs and Affirmations to replace those.

I offer these Denials and Affirmations:

1. I AM worthy of a loving, trusting committed relationship
2. All the good men AREN'T taken
3. There are plenty of good men still available
4. I deserve love and companionship
5. My divine and right partner comes to me NOW
6. I NOW bless and release everyone who isn't willing and able to give me the love and companionship I so richly deserve

Work with these and any other Denials and Affirmations that resonate with you. Those sabotaging beliefs weren't acquired overnight so don't expect to change your beliefs by tomorrow. However, if you stay with them in time the fruits of your labor will manifest; you will attract to you your right and perfect man. How do I know it works? It worked, that is, is working, for me!

Peace & Light! DeBora